The mistake is to many is they have a very full frame complacent child sexual prejudices it does not act according to their perception of things that have value.
One of the topics I like to discuss in my meetings with friends is about the psychology of seduction why many men and women interpret a false character, thereby repressing their sexual intentions casual sex. Generally engagements today start at a party or meeting between known friends, accompanied by dancing and large amounts of alcohol.
To illustrate some it occurs to me that "Pancho" is invited by her friends to the house of "Pancha" who held his birthday weekend, the boy not to attend only the meeting calls his best friend "Louie" comes the day of the party, both fun and Pancho is fortunate to meet a beautiful girl with dark teas, whose flirtatious look no deciphers their twenties, she owns full lips, a completely clean face ( with almost no makeup), which more public attention focuses his long curly hair is black, her slender figure and delicate silhouette; she is "Jacinta"; a woman so beautiful that their parents apparently carved with a fine chisel whole nature.
Pancho knew after dancing a song of fashion, one of those hits that sound until they get on the bus, I look very deeply into her eyes and asked her to dance without fear before all that night, it seems that their matched, they exchanged your Facebook, phone number and you soon start coming to get to know a little more and who knows, everything here can flow (I forgot to say that our friend Jacinta is a woman of average type, whose education was very conservative by part of your family). The days passed so that finally a date been given, Jacinta was made available Pancho in a suitable place that can convey their emotions through accompanied by a coffee dynamic conversation, when to say goodbye to the night a kiss they gave our friend Pancho had planned to end the date having wild sex all night in a hotel, which turned out to be a failed attempt for which thinks to woo Jacinta get the much coveted trophy that brings between his legs (Fortunately our friend Jacinta is a adult aware of their sexuality and what you want) .The mistake Idiot Pancho is having a very full frame complacent child sexual prejudices it does not act according to their perception of value that things have often root all this is in the military education that people received throughout his life.
Another very common scenario that I find in the preface that meeting is called "Conservative - Perverse" which was developed by the father of psychoanalysis, Dr. Sigmund Freud, who sees the sexuality of women totally opposed (perverse and conservative) , it is surprising that a tiny percentage fall within this sample, the classification tends to vary on a scale of one, two, three, four and five in which more bone highest number 5 belongs to a totally conservative woman, never It engages in sex with or without short-term commitments. This woman only has sex with a man who is her husband or boyfriend in a serious long-term relationship; the woman who is in the middle of the range that is 3 is about a woman who prefers to have sex in a serious, long-term relationship, but this woman also enjoys casual events sex short term and uncompromising, but if you say right thing at the right time and in the specific day, or if you usually your type of ideal man and your verbal skills are right you passed with it, concluding with classification, that Miss less corresponding to 1 it is considered to promiscuous femme with any man who wooed.
Men, particularly those sexist and / or sexist always have the desire to seduce a girl representing a challenge, therefore seeks the challenge in women who are conservative from the three, four and five levels; however many of them looking for a girl to have casual sex but not with the girls who are perceived with a range of one to two. The big surprise in this is that women are not stupid, the vast majority of women are one two will not publicly presented as easy girls, these women want to be perceived as a challenge worth pursuing.
Women defined as one two interacting with a man playing the role of tough girl holding a fake image of being conservative in their sexual habits, thus hiding his side concerned (materialistic) for showing his sexual behavior as defined to be three, four, five.
If most men were of objective mind and avoid criticism about the sexuality of women, more women would be receptive to the participation of more frequent episodes of spontaneous casual sex. He believed that no woman wants to be perceived or classified as a promiscuous or easy.
If all men were forthright with their intentions and avoid criticism about the sexuality of women, surely more women would be receptive to the enthusiastic participation of short periods of casual sex. I am sure that no woman wants to be perceived or classified as easy or promiscuous simply because she likes sex more than you. It is time to solve this problem, some people, mostly men who repress their intentions of wanting to have sex with someone and apparently the easiest way is to lie, creating a bubble of lies; however this goes far beyond that, you must first learn to be quiet and unobtrusive. Do not be intimate with women, then tell them in detail to all your friends, siblings or acquaintances draw us everything you did with a woman. There alphas women who really do not care what others think, so do not care if you are someone who has a big mouth and tend to walk it 'screaming' from the rooftops, but the vast majority of women away from that. So as an adult you have to learn not to judge the sexual habits and tastes of other people, stop putting adjectives simply because they exchanged orgasms last night during the first or second date. Feel flattered (a)! you you looked so attractive (or) who wanted to have sex with you. If you do not want anything long term or a serious relationship with her, then just do not give that woman the impression that want that.
Many unconsciously suffer from this complex "Wicked - Conservative" which in the end what you get is walking with a mentality of endless shortages, without getting what they really want and leaving many people dissatisfied. I've met with young adult customers and the only thing people want is attractive display them at social events.
Do not look for a conservative person if your only intention this have casual sex, what damage you cause is emotionally and psychologically, and long term, they will not trust others. Ideally pursue those if your interest is sex long and serious relationship.
If your main interest is sex without commitment or short-term, you should pursue the person are one, two and three. There is a certain percentage of people who are really open to the idea of participating in casual and spontaneous periods of perverse sex. Thus, no regrets on both sides.
I say goodbye to all of you, a hug, until next time.
Alonso Ferreyros
